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Category Archives: Parenting

Mellow Monday.

Sometimes at the end of a hectic Monday you just need to sit on the sofa with your dog and close your eyes.

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Then gently rub your hands to give yourself some calm and comfort.

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When you’ve done that then allow yourself to embrace the inevitable and sink into sleep.

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What a peaceful, stress free end of the day for my youngest and Rosie.

I wish for you and I that, after the business and busyness of our day, we embrace our downtime as whole-heartedly.

Lynn x

© 2013, Penbleth / L. McG.-E.. All rights reserved.

Friday round-up.

It’s Friday, time for a look back at the week in pictures.

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It has been a week of hugs and cuddles.

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Of conversations, spoken and internal.

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Of the warmth of tea.

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And walks along the towpath.

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What have you been doing this week? Please do share, feel free to post a link to your blog if you have written about this.

I have Comment Luv installed. If you click it and add your blog details it will find your RSS and link to your blog. Do it once and it will remember you forever, unless you change something or there is a glitch.

Have a great Friday and enjoy your weekend.

Lynn x

© 2013, Penbleth / L. McG.-E.. All rights reserved.

A smoother take on morning.

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There is a quiet, peaceful calm blanketing this morning. The sun is out, dew lies on the grass and there is nothing onerous demanding my attention.

I like to take the time to notice such moments. The voice in my head saying this could all be a dupe for a challenging day ahead I endeavour to block.

So here I sit, having seen my youngest safely off to school, with my older girl preparing for college and my dog on my lap.

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I hope your day brings you moments of calm.

Lynn x

© 2013, Penbleth / L. McG.-E.. All rights reserved.

Ease down from a stressful beginning.

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It has become something of an online tradition to complain about Mondays. I will admit to a sneaking suspension that Monday isn’t nearly as bad as most people anticipate it being. Then again perhaps it is.

My Monday began with an ever-increasing dread that I had inadvertently overlooked a teacher training day and that either my husband or I were going to have to stay home today at short notice. Since I had to do just that last Thursday when 14 had to stay home with a swollen eyelid I really did not fancy having to do the same again today. Have you ever noticed that when things are stressful and people want to put off a discussion for as long as possible they do their utmost to avoid eye contact? That was certainly my husband and I this morning. Eventually I received a text to say there was a problem with 14′s school bus but it was now rectified and they were on their way to collect her. Time for a sigh of relief, and some complaining, well we are only human.

Eventually 14 was able to leave for school and her father and I were able to leave for work and it all worked out fine. I will admit that for about the first hour or so of the working day the stress was still hanging over me. Starting the day with anxiety is really not ideal.

Thankfully I am now home, Rosie has been collected from Hub’s parents where she stays when I am at work and the girls have returned from school and college. We are back into our routine and pattern.

I eased into that return with a late lunch and a hot cuppa, then I persuaded 18 to model for me so I could have an image to go with the post. The contents of the mug have long since been consumed. I am all for getting a photo but not at the expense of drinking my tea while it’s hot and I’ve just returned from work.

I hope your Monday has been less hectic and offers you a moment of rest and ease after your work is done.

Lynn x

© 2013, Penbleth / L. McG.-E.. All rights reserved.

Welcome to Friday.

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Friday morning and a return to normality. My youngest woke like the lark, happily unhindered by inflamed eyes or any other problem. Fortunately she is quite happy at the prospect of returning to school, she enjoyed her unexpected day at home yesterday and will enjoy her day at school today. Thankfully her autism has never caused her to have difficulty adjusting between both places.

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One of the tools that helps us in this is her home/school diary. I truly wish all schools had the time to use these. They are a wonderful way around the old conundrum of asking your child what they did in school today and getting the ubiquitous answer, “nuthin’”.

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Tonight is respite night. My youngest will be collected from school and head off until tomorrow lunchtime. She will have a wonderful time. Long gone are the days when we couldn’t tell her in advance about activities because she would expect to do them immediately. Now we can say in the morning, “you are going to school and then you are going to respite”, and she can know how her day is going to develop. When she was younger and couldn’t cope with this I always felt life happened to her rather than really involved her. This ability to be able to understand concepts like, “now”, “then”, “later” and even the dreaded previously dirty word, “wait”, helps my daughter make much more sense of her world. How readily I had taken what has seemed to me a basic understanding for granted until she came along.

Whatever you are doing this weekend I hope you find some time to relax and enjoy the simple basics, they make a great difference.

Lynn x

© 2013, Penbleth / L. McG.-E.. All rights reserved.